13/11/2017
LIVING WITH PAIN
As children, we seem to understand everything and anything that comes our way, nothing is a problem,every person enjoys the day in and day out.
It starts on your early age,when you realize that u couldn't enjoy life as it is because of your situation, of which is caused by unstable family,well I'm a not super hero and the one thing that I'm sure of is I feel pain, every thing was fine until you realized that you didn't have a proper family.
During that time you might want to know what had separated your parents, then you decide to reconcile with the lost one but then something unusual pops up,both of your parents never wanted you to be part of the family and you are too blind to see that,they were not prepared to be committed on each other,your purpose is not to bring back the pain,so nothing works,no support and no progress.the pain of being raised by a mom while friends are raised by both of their parents becomes huge.a child grows up in an abusive family and they seem to forget that one day a child will become an adult, responsibility has to be taken.
NOW A HUGE PROBLEM BECOMES A CHALLENGE
• What do we do when we see a fourteen year old smoking cigarette?
• What causes the youth to commit su***de?
• What makes the youth to drink so much?
• Is peer pressure part of the cause of this suicidal thoughts?
• Did God create us to just commit su***de as we please?
• What causes this pain that we can not handle?
• What can we do to remove this evil spirits (evil thoughts)?
• What about those who became monsters after losing their loved ones, what happens to the ones who turn to serial killers after being hurt?
• Is hunger the cause of this teenage pregnancy,if not what is the cause?
• Does leaving with pain couse bad parenting, high rate of teenage pregnancy ,peer pressure, rejection,loosing our loved ones and so on....
What makes a father to take out his gun and kill the whole family including himself after finding that his wife cheated?
Young adults and teenagers seem to enjoy criticism and racism.
Living with pain can be part of our lives depending on our deferences of healing, some heal a few months after, some heal after few years but to some of us it takes our life time,the pain hount us a few months or years back after getting married then they decide to drink poison (too much alcohol).
Some choose to heal deferently, they choose to be abusive within the family,rape their own children or the related ones.
We need to change our way of looking at things,we need to see this world the right way.
"GOD BLESS AFRICA"