02/24/2023
Something a lot of people don't know about me is:
I have a background in nursing!🧡
I worked in a nursing home, as a nurses aide and in client's homes, as a homecare provider.
When I was training in university, I spent time on a medical-surgical floor.🚑
One day, my teacher placed me with a particular patient.
Let's call him, Joe.
Joe was an older gentleman, about 50 years my senior. Calling him a gentleman was being kind.
He was rude.
He was difficult.
He was irritable.
Joe was downright mean.😠
Of course, you know me, Miss Kind.
How the heck was I supposed to deal with this guy?
When I tried to care for Joe, he would grumble and cuss.
Clearly, he was in the hospital for a reason.
Joe was unwell.
I had to maneuver him and coax him into letting me take his vitals.
Just then, a food service worker delivered his lunch.🍲
Joe complained to me, "I'm not going to eat that sh*t!"
I tried to convince him, that he needed to keep up his strength.💪
Then, I said, I'm supposed to get you to use the washroom post-operation.
After he reluctantly agreed to get up, I calmly braced him, as he transitioned from the bed.
He suddenly had an accident on the floor.
Nervously, Joe bumped the side table, knocking his food tray, causing the boiled egg to roll off the plate, and plop in the mess on the floor.🥚
I said, "Well, now your meal really is sh*t."
And with that, Joe began roaring with laughter.🤣
Such a humbling moment for someone, to have their care in the hands of another.
A vulnerable and intimate experience like this, requires a particular attitude to assist someone in this state.
👉Have you ever been a patient?
👉Have you ever had to care for someone?
(A child, a spouse, an aging parent)
Did you catch that word: PATIENT
There are times in your life, in your work, in your family, where your patience will be TESTED.
Your skills will be TESTED.
You will be TESTED.
👉Are you confident in your knowledge, experience, and all that you are, to act in the moment and serve others with compassion?
👉Are you prepared to uphold the DIGNITY of each human person that you meet?
P.S. Joe wasn't rude, difficult, irritable, or mean anymore.🧡