29/10/2026
One of the most useful communication skills at work is knowing when to ask another question instead of making another point.
Think about the last time a meeting became difficult.
Perhaps two people disagreed about the best approach. Maybe a project was falling behind, or a colleague wasn't responding to feedback as expected.
It's easy to focus on getting your own point across, but sometimes the conversation moves forward only when someone takes the time to understand what's behind the disagreement.
Try these questions instead:
- “What's the main concern from your perspective?”
- “What information might we be missing?”
- “What would a workable solution look like for both sides?”
- “What do we need to agree before we move forward?”
These questions don't guarantee agreement. They do help uncover assumptions, clarify what's important to each person and make it easier to explore options.
Influencing isn't about having the strongest argument in the room. It's about understanding the situation well enough to help people reach a useful outcome.
What's a question that has helped you navigate a difficult conversation at work?