29/08/2026
IN LIFE, THE SILENT WORK BECOMES THE LESSON! đŚâ¨đ
Last month a long chat in the studio with BrontĂŤ turned into an article published on FEMME COUNTRY MAGAZINE Ltd and it did something I didnât expect.
It sent me straight back through the last 29 years of my life. From 1997 when I landed in the UK, started a family, and swapped one career for the one I dreamt of when I first visited London as a student in 1992.
Back then I fell in love with a company I could only dream of working for at some point in my life: Laura Ashley.
Fast forward to 2007, and that was my first job as an interior designer. My journey as Elisa Interiors didnât start until 2010, and 6 years later I finally built my own studio. My dream of turning creativity into rooms that hold peopleâs everyday lives became my day-to-day life.
But reading the article, I realised the reflection wasnât about business. It was very much personal.
I used to think the sacrifices were for me and the business. But the article made me look at my girls (28 and 26, both living in Madrid now) and realise that every struggle, every fall, every hard-won lesson wasnât just shaping me. From a 25-year-old girl in a small village outside Rome, to a woman building something new in a country that wasnât mine, every version of me they witnessed became a version they could reach for too.
And that took me all the way back to my own childhood, back to the two women who shaped my life:
â¨my grandmother and mother. â¨
Their daily âritualsâ (time spent in the kitchen cooking, taking care of the house and the people they loved, and always leaving the house immaculately dressed and groomed) taught me everything, without a word being spoken. I just watched. Every day. Quietly.
So hereâs the lesson: the part we donât see, the struggle, the doubt, the fear, the anxiety, the part we hide from the rest of the world, that is the part with the greatest value.
Thank you, BrontĂŤ, for giving me the chance to reflect on my life and for making me part of your beautiful magazine, a genuine reflection of your vision and values. đ
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