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10/18/2026

What does financial freedom mean—and what do we want that freedom to make possible?

A headline about households earning $500,000 a year and still reporting paycheck-to-paycheck pressure stopped me. It raised questions about income, lifestyle, expectations, security, and the lives we hope to live.

Our financial pressures are different. Struggling to afford essentials is different from struggling to sustain an expensive lifestyle. Health, caregiving, housing, debt, and unpredictable income also shape our choices.

I don’t have all the answers. I’m inviting readers, viewers, and fellow travelers to help formulate better questions—and share insights and strategies for finding answers.

This conversation continues in four companion articles:

1. MEDIUM
When a Bigger Paycheck Still Does Not Feel Like Enough

A broader exploration of money, financial pressure, creative work, and what “enough” might make possible in our lives.

https://medium.com//when-a-bigger-paycheck-still-does-not-feel-like-enough-1263e1bca4f3?sk=b5929fc61dc690e6e7220ce905fd5f02

2. THE LEANING LEADERSHIP LADDER
The Financial Literacy Behind Entrepreneurial Freedom

How understanding household needs, lifestyle commitments, business revenue, profit, and cash flow can help entrepreneurs build businesses that support the freedom they seek.

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/financial-literacy-behind-entrepreneurial-freedom-tom-sims-716yc

3. PATREON — TOM’S FRONT PORCH
Livin’ the Life and Talking About Money

A follow-up to “Livin’ the Life,” taking the pulse of our community: What are we experiencing? What do we need to understand? What would make a basic financial literacy resource useful?

https://www.patreon.com/tomsims/posts/livin-life-and-172727723?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

4. PASTORAL EXCELLENCE
Financial Literacy as Congregational Discipleship

An invitation for congregations to teach practical financial understanding, simplicity—even in abundance—and stewardship expressed through generosity and mutual care.

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/financial-literacy-congregational-discipleship-tom-sims-elrkc

A FREE RESOURCE
Money Tools for Everyday Life

An index of government tools for budgeting, saving, investing, understanding income, managing debt, and protecting your household.

https://acrobat.adobe.com/id/urn:aaid:sc:US:736c0a95-6f71-4ed3-93f7-b811a2484f30

Join the conversation:
• What financial question are you wrestling with?
• What do you wish someone had taught you about money?
• What would greater financial breathing room allow you to do?

Share only what you’re comfortable making public. A thoughtful question is a welcome contribution.

More from Tom:
https://tomsims.life

10/17/2026

What can a bad example teach us? And what are other people learning from the example we set?

In this reflection, Tom Sims explores mentoring, role models, habits, and the lessons we pass along—sometimes without realizing anyone is watching.

From medical students shadowing physicians to a kung fu instructor’s reminder that “practice makes permanent,” we consider how observation, honest correction, and daily review can help us grow.

Questions to carry into your day:
• What do I want to learn from the people I observe?
• What would I choose to do differently?
• What am I practicing often enough that it is becoming a habit?
• How do I acknowledge and correct mistakes when others are watching?

Read the companion articles:

The Power of a Bad Example — Medium friend link
https://medium.com//the-power-of-a-bad-example-d120cf6da3a8?sk=1cce361db7fedab7161320e64ba30757

Who Is Learning from Your Example? — Substack
https://tomsims.substack.com/p/who-is-learning-from-your-example

The companion Learning from Examples workbook includes five reflection grids, instructions, and a completed example for learners and mentors.

Explore resources and ways to connect:
TomSims.life - https://tomsims.life
Tom’s Linktree - htttps://linktr.ee/tomsims

What is one practice you learned from a good—or disappointing—example? Share your reflection in the comments.

10/10/2026

Read about it:

https://medium.com//it-goes-without-saying-or-does-it-70c1380aec36?sk=f7c29483c97f9c09fee2e032861e9c1c

10/08/2026

I’m discovering that I’m living the life I once dreamed about. What parts of your dream are already taking shape?

Read “Livin’ the Life” and watch the companion video on Tom’s Front Porch on Patreon. A workbook is coming for members to help you take stock, wake up to dream, and chart a course.

Come pull up a chair.

https://www.patreon.com/tomsims/posts/livin-life-171813555?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

10/05/2026

When discouragement takes the wind out of our sails, where do we find courage to keep going?

In this Bible Chat, we reflect on Ezra 4:4 and Isaiah 54:4. Ezra describes people discouraged and made afraid to build. Isaiah brings God’s encouragement into the fear of shame and disgrace.

Read the full study: https://tomsims.substack.com/p/when-discrouagement-takes-the-wind

Opposition, stalled progress, and disappointment can leave us ready to quit. Sometimes we also fear hearing someone say, “I told you you couldn’t do it.”

A setback does not define you. God’s encouragement can reach us through Scripture, prayer, a friend’s presence, and people willing to walk with us.

What is discouraging you today? What has helped you keep going? Share your thoughts in the comments.

Continue the reflection on Substack, where the subscriber section offers a group conversation guide on encouragement, prayer, and doing life together:
https://tomsims.substack.com

Explore Tom’s Front Porch on Patreon and other ways to connect:
https://linktr.ee/tomsims

More Bible Chat:
https://biblechatonline.com

Subscribe for more Bible reflections and conversations about faith and everyday life.

10/05/2026

In the long game, finding gateway people is about making friends for life.

I’ve sat on both sides of the coffee table: seeking introductions and being asked to make them. Those encounters have taught me to appreciate honest intentions, listen to the person in the other chair, and put friendship in the plus column.

A conversation can be worthwhile even when it doesn’t produce a sale, referral, or agreement. Sometimes we leave with a relationship that lasts for decades.

Read “Gateway People” on Medium:
https://medium.com//gateway-people-349fe158ae2a?sk=7bfc68f4bb3541827a9da48e5b781344

Read the companion reflection, “Never Let Anyone Leave Empty-Handed”:
https://tomsims.substack.com/p/never-let-anyone-leave-empty-handed

What friendship began with a conversation you thought would be about something else? Share your story in the comments.

Find more reflections, coaching opportunities, and my Patreon Front Porch:
https://linktr.ee/tomsims

Subscribe for more conversations about relationships, leadership, and meaningful living.

10/05/2026

What can you give someone that has no price tag and no conditions?

As a teenager in Richmond, Virginia, I discovered a little bookstore on Broad Street run by two women who told me, “We never let anyone leave empty-handed.” They gave away booklets, advice, encouragement, and their attention. More than fifty years later, I’m still carrying what they gave me.

Their example offers a practice for our conversations, businesses, and creative work: listen carefully and offer something useful that people can receive without buying, joining, or agreeing.

Read “Never Let Anyone Leave Empty-Handed” on Substack:
https://tomsims.substack.com/p/never-let-anyone-leave-empty-handed

Read the companion article, “Gateway People,” on Medium:
https://medium.com//gateway-people-349fe158ae2a?sk=7bfc68f4bb3541827a9da48e5b781344

What did someone give you freely that you’re still carrying? And what could you pass along today? Tell me in the comments.

Find more resources and connect with me on Patreon’s Front Porch:
https://linktr.ee/tomsims

Subscribe for future reflections and practical resources. Either way, I hope you leave with something worth carrying.

09/08/2026

08/31/2026

Most leaders do not lose trust or influence because of one dramatic mistake. More often, it is the gradual accumulation of poor communication, weak listening habits, defensiveness, and strained relationships.

The “boiling frog” story may not be scientifically accurate, but its warning is worth considering: we can adapt to unhealthy patterns until the consequences become painfully clear.

In this short reflection, I share practical steps for growing your people skills, receiving feedback, listening more effectively, and becoming a stronger leader.

Read the full coaching companion—with reflection questions and practical exercises—on Substack:

https://tomsims.substack.com/p/before-the-water-gets-too-hot

Connect with Tom Sims:
https://linktr.ee/tomsims

06/17/2026

Doing pays well.

Proverbs 14:23 reminds us: “All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty.”

The profit may not always be immediate money. Sometimes it is skill. Sometimes it is character. Sometimes it is momentum. But purposeful action always moves us forward.

Today’s assignment is simple: don’t just talk about it. Do something.

Read the full article on Medium:
https://medium.com//do-something-e3a5add34bed?sk=a65d27f0f3d6edd890449e80d1f6d6e0

More resources, articles, workshops, and encouragement:
https://linktr.ee/tomsims