10/15/2026
So I argued with someone on the internet the other day.
I know I know. It’s 2026. I should absolutely know better.
This person had posted something that super-interested me, a book she wrote about setting up your home to support you – for neurodivergent people.
I liked the ideas (it’s important that you know that) but the illustrations seemed … too sleek. My comment was “love this! Who is your illustrator?”
Another person posted “hope it’s not AI” in response. The original poster wrote back something like “it’s canva and AI” along with an explanation of how she needed money to feed her kids so she couldn’t hire an illustrator.
This is - I suppose - where a sane person would have stopped. Not me. I commented something like “use crayons! Even simple drawings are better than AI”
She responded quickly asking if I was offering to illustrate for her for free. After initial indignation, (pay artists !!!) I thought about it on the way to the bus.
I would in fact, be willing to do a drawing for this person. I liked the concept, I’ve done stupider things for smaller rewards.
I sent her a message.
Went back to check the initial post.
I bet you know what happened next
Her comment admitting AI use was gone. Making it look like I was having a weird convo with myself in the comments.
Then, a minute later, the whole profile was gone. And I felt stupid.
I had assumed I was talking to the poised, smiling, 30-something, Black woman in the profile . Someone with children to feed (like me) trying to do a thing on the internet.
Boooo. Was it a scammer ? A bot? could have been anything. I was like the dwarves in Mirkwood chasing lights that disappear as soon as you step into the circle, leaving you in the dark wondering um what just happened?
Feeling duped, a little embarrassed - had I imagined the whole thing? When she (he? It?) deleted the profile the whole post vanished, my comments, the replies- like it never happened.
Be careful out there friends.
#2026