10/12/2026
Confidence is a costume. Most of us are wearing it.
25 years into this and I still second-guess calls on site. Still look things up I feel like I should already know cold. That doesn't go away... you just get better at not letting it stop you.
This industry rewards looking certain, so a lot of us learn to perform it, even when we're not. But the guys I trust most aren't the ones who never doubt themselves. They're the ones honest enough to say "I don't know yet, let me figure it out."
If you're in this trade and feel like you're the only one faking it some days... you're not. Say it out loud to somebody.