08/10/2026
For two years, I heated water in the microwave and carried it to my mother's bedside.
That was bathing. A basin of warm water that went cold in five minutes. Washcloths and soap and both of us pretending this was fine. She would say "thank you, honey" afterward, and the way she said it made me want to disappear.
Nobody told me there was something between sponge baths and a $30,000 bathroom renovation. I thought those were the only two options, so I picked the one I could afford and lived with it for two years.
I was wrong. And I wrote the whole story - the shower chairs that didn't work, the bed sores we fought, the day I found out about FAWSsit after it was too late - because I don't want you to do what I did.
If you're doing sponge baths right now and telling yourself it's the best you can do, please read this. There is something else.
Read the full story: I Wish I'd Known - Two Years of Sponge Baths for My Elderly Mother and What I'd Do Differently
https://www.fawssit.com/i-wish-id-known-two-years-of-sponge-baths-for-my-elderly-mother-and-what-id-do-differently/
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When sponge baths become the only option for an elderly parent, dignity slowly erodes. One caregiver shares two years of bed baths, bed sores, and what she wishes she'd known about portable showers.