05/28/2026
It was an absolute honor to get to know Gary. And then see him as the Grandpa my kids know. He was living his absolute best life.
He was someone who had found true happiness in life. He was not chasing a bigger house, nicer things, and a more expensive car. He lived in the same apartment for over 25 years. He was truly happy where he was. Except his garden. The garden that he was always reducing, but somehow kept growing.
He loved to check out my shop. We'd talk about upcoming projects or finished jobs he'd seen on Facebook. But the best was him casually asking about unsold pieces that he could take to his place.
But his true pride was his daughter. That is all he needed. He loved to talk to her or come visit with her. To help landscape. Clean up my chaos. And take us out to a great dinner. We loved to see him enjoy happiness just sitting in the dark on the deck, or by the pond. He'd sit for hours - no phone in sight. Just frogs chirping, peaceful night air, and a Busch light.
And those grandbabies. They were the light of his life. Hearing the excitement when he talked to them on the phone. Sitting on the floor playing hot wheels. Endless card games. They truly completed his life.
So today, gonna try to be a little more like Grandpa. Maybe want a little less. Be proud of where we're at. Don't worry what others are doing and have. Do what makes your soul happy. Water the garden. Enjoy the present moments. And love those around you.
Rest Easy, Grandpa. We'll take the garden from here. ❤️
