09/01/2017
An extract from the book's second chapter Man To Man
2.2 APPRECIATE YOUR WOMAN
You saw a beautiful woman, you like her and then you fight tirelessly to win her heart. You wake up in the middle of the night to text her sweet messages. You swore you love her; you call her pet names, adore her imperfections and love whatever she puts on. You spend all your time with her without complaining you clean her face and wipe her tears, ended up gently winning her heart.
You made her believe in you. She came to trust you. You assured her that you will always be there for her.
You gave her hope, now she believes you are different. She believes she has found love again. She threw her pride away; she forgot the value she attached to herself. She has refused everyone that competes with you for her.
So now she tells everyone that cares to hear that she has found ‘the one’ and now you thinking of how to break up with her. Her presence now chokes you up, her voice is now irritating. She is now cheap to you. You now clearly see where she has stretch marks. You now see that her English is bad. She is suddenly from a poor background and now she is not your type.
Remember this:
Every act has its consequences. You deceived her and had your ways and now you think she is cheap. With time she will forget you but always remember that you will also receive disappointments where you had full hope. Men need to change. Stop using women and leave them like trash. They deserve better.
Be happy with the woman you have, because that is the woman some guy out there wishes he could have. Do not wait until you see your woman in the palm of another guys hand to start appreciating her because by then it would be too late. Do not focus on what she lacks or what she is not because she makes up for that with what she does have and what she is. Do not focus on her imperfections and tell her she should change because all the things you do not like about her, there is another guy out there who would accept her the way she is and would not change a thing about her.
Never take her love for granted and treat her like s**t because it would be just sad if one of her male friends treats her better than her own boyfriend does. So be happy with the woman you have because you might never get that lucky to be with a woman as good as her again if you fail to realize her worth.
Do not take her for granted if she is giving you too much attention; just consider yourself lucky because she loves you so much that she does not want anyone else to take her place in your life. If she cries for you, do not think she is weak but consider yourself lucky that she thinks you are worth her precious tears.
If she is jealous of other women around you, do not think she is insecure but she does not want anyone else to be in your arms. If a woman says sorry to you even though it was not her fault, do not think she fears loosing you but she considers her relationship worth another chance and she does not want anyone else to have your heart.
Because she loves you, she does not mind fighting for you. But fighting over you with another woman? That is something different. That is something she would never do. There is a difference between fighting for and fighting over someone. If a woman thinks you are worth it, then she will fight for you regardless of how hard that battle may be. But if you put yourself in a position where she has to fight over you with another woman, then you are obviously not worth it.
Some guys would get mad when there is another guy trying to get their woman. But my brother, as long as you are doing everything you can to treat her right; as long as you are making your woman happy and as long as you do not mess up. What is there to be scared of? Your woman is beautiful at first sight, so of course other guys would want to approach her and make her their own.
But do you really think she would leave you for the next guy that comes along and throw away all the feelings she has for you? You have nothing to worry about. She cares about you, not these other thirsty ass ni**as. But if she does give in to another guy and leaves you for the other guy, let that woman go because you do not need a woman like that anyways.
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Book Launch on the 25th February 2017 at the Gtreat Bingo CASINO Ladysmith