10/29/2026
A client came to me recently with something I see often: a folder full of photographs, a long list of wants, and a clear sense of what she admired. All useful things. But our most important conversation had nothing to do with any of them.
Before we talked about rooms or materials or how the house might look, we talked about her family. How they moved through their days. How they gathered. What they needed to retreat from, and what they wanted more of. That conversation — unhurried and exploratory — gave us something no folder of images could: a clear picture of how this family actually lived. From there, a very different kind of brief emerged. Not a checklist of features, but something closer to a compass.
A house, I've always believed, should work the way a well-made suit does. What you notice is the person wearing it — not the cut, the fabric, or the label. This month, that idea is where I'd like to start.